Choose four of the following eight questions to write thoughtful responses to.  Make sure that your answers are written in complete sentences and include specific details from the book.

1.  Grandpa Garnet told Ruby that people are like lemon drops, sour and sweet together. [p.18] What did he mean? What is sour and sweet about each of the main characters in this book-Ruby, Miss Eula, Melba Jane?

2.  Miss Eula is known for the motto "Life does go on." [p.21] What do you think this means?

3.  Ruby and Melba Jane each experience the loss of a loved one, but they deal with that loss differently. How does Ruby handle it? Melba Jane? In what ways could they have helped each other? Who can you turn to in your time of need?

4.  Miss Mattie comforts Ruby by telling her, "This family is full of strong women who know how to laugh." [p.133] Explain how humor helps Ruby and Miss Eula deal with their sadness. How have you used humor to help you get through tough situations?

5.  "We're all different and we're all the same." [p.71] Or at least, that's what Dove says. How are Ruby and Melba Jane different? How are they alike? What can they learn from each other? In what ways did the attack on the chickens change Ruby and Melba Jane?

6.  Both Ruby and Melba Jane welcome Dove, who becomes friends with both of them. How can differences in interests and personalities make for good friendships? In what ways can new friends affect old friendships? Do any of the friendships in Love, Ruby Lavender make you see your own friendships differently?

7.  Both Melba Jane and Ruby hold grudges against each other. Is this fair? What are the dangers of grudges? Have you ever had a conflict with a friend? Would you handle it differently now that time has passed?

8.  Ruby looks to Miss Eula for comfort, security, and love. Why does Ruby send Miss Eula updates about the chickens even though she feels like her grandmother abandoned her for some new (smelly) baby? Has Miss Eula really abandoned Ruby?